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Invest in Your Relationship


Its free to join and it only takes 5 minutes a week

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Invest in Your Relationship


Its free to join and it only takes 5 minutes a week

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That Nagging Feeling

You don't have relationship problems but because you are busy and focused on things like your career or children you want something to help you invest in your partner.

Who's This For?


It's not for relationships in crisis. Relate is for any serious relationship with a solid foundation but with room for improvement.

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Who's This For?


It's not for relationships in crisis. Relate is for any serious relationship with a solid foundation but with room for improvement.

Join

What is it?

Relate is based on decades of relational maintenance theory research. Our goal is to use science and data online to prompt you to take offline action on your relationship.

No apps or passwords!

There is no app to install and no password to remember. The entire program is handled via text message to make it easy and discreet. Your name is never attached to your data, and your significant other cannot see your data. 

Is it counseling?

Relate is not a counselor. Relate learns about you and your relationship the more you use it in order to craft a personalized coaching program.

How It Works


How It Works


Coaching

Unlike working with a counselor or reading a book you will get help from Relate through regular tips and challenges. The challenges and tips will come to you via text. The challenges will be customized to your relationship based on our proprietary relationship management algorithms.

Feedback Loop

You will log your activity by sending "done" or "skip"  or "remind me" via text message to the machines, it's really easy and will not take a lot of your time. New challenges will be assigned based on how well you do and based on our proprietary relationship management algorithms.

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Free to join for 30 days. No credit card required. Then only a one time contribution of $24. Why? Because we want to remove all barriers to better relationships.

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Free to join for 30 days. No credit card required. Then only a one time contribution of $24. Why? Because we want to remove all barriers to better relationships.

Joining is easy. Just text "start romantic" to: 612-806-0144

It's not case sensitive. You don't need the quotes. And don't worry, spam is not cool, we will never share your phone number or sell your individual data or market to you.

For now only U.S. phone numbers can use Relate, if you are outside of the U.S. and would like to know when we have international capabilities you can add yourself to our list here.

 

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FAQ


FAQ


Are you sharing my data to make money?
No. We are not sharing your individually identifiable data with anyone, certainly not to make money. We will always be transparent about what we do with your individually identifiable data. We don't like being marketed to by 3rd parties either.

Can I use this without my significant other?
Yes. The program is designed for each person in a relationship to work on improving the relationship on their own. Of course it's better with two though.

Do I have to be married to use this program?
No you don't. This is for anyone in a serious relationship regardless of marital status.

Can my significant other see my information?
No, only you can see your information. If you feel comfortable, and your significant other also has an account, you can link accounts and compete against one another. But you will not be able to see each others personal profiles or text messages.

 

How much does it cost?
The service is 100% free to join and use for 30 days and only costs a one time fee of $24 to keep using after.

Is this only for one gender?
No, anyone can join.

How long is the program?
Just like the top athletes never out grow the need for a coach we believe you can use Relate for a life time.

Can anyone see my progress?
No, no one can see your data except for you. All text messages and data are stored securely.

What if it does not work?
Some things are outside of our control and out of the control of our members. If our program does not work for you, we suggest seeing a counselor.